Look, everybody has those people: ones who lie or are just plain annoying. But how do you handle different types of conflict? I'll show you how! **Disclaimer - This does not apply to family members... you actually love them! Oh and there are no relationship conflicts in here; can you tell I'm single?
OFFENSE:
If a girl....
1. Talks behind your back.
This can get frustrating, especially because you feel like you have to watch your back. Don't let her yap-pity words dictate your actions! Ignore up until it really starts to bother you, and then confront her in the least aggressive way possible. She should know a. that you know and b. she needs to stop. She will probably be either defensive or embarrassed, but she should blush! Girl needs to keep quiet! Make sure you don't make it sound like an attack or it will probably lead to a fight, which is just stressful. But if after you speak and she continues, you're gonna have to get into it.
2. Talks shit to your face.
Hey at least she has more balls than the last one. But that means she's just more of a b*tch. If she's going to make herself look like a fool and yell and you like a psycho, do the exact opposite. Stay as calm as you can manage, and just observe how pathetic she looks with her brow furrowed. It's actually pretty funny! You can take the high road and walk away, or keep the dialogue up. But remember, the one who cares the least has the most control.
3. Tries to steal your guy.
Hands off! Don't let her wiggle her way between the two of you. Assert your ground and don't go soft here because she's looking for a place to jump in. If your guy's as great as you think he is, he will stick by your side. But if it's early in the relationship, don't let the two of them be alone together, especially in a janitor's closet.
4. Just doesn't seem to like you.
Give her the benefit of the doubt: maybe that's just her personality. But once you realize that it's not her personality or her frigidness keeps bothering you, then just don't bother anymore. Be impartial and try to spend less time with her. No insults, no foul play, just stop considering her someone you want to spend your time with. Sometimes personalities just aren't compatible. Besides, it's her loss.